June 08, 2011

It has spread:(

Over 2 hours in clinic as they were running late and one consultant got called up to ward for something. Sister had to go and get him back. Sitting really worried wondering what was happening and trying to keep strong for Mr Mog. Everyone called in except us, we were last. Went in to be told had spread to bones, no more info as they hadn't had a meeting to discuss results and treatment. They will do that this Friday. We have to go back next Wednesday for full explanation and treatment options. I asked why they hadn't rung us to postpone meeting rather than keep us worrying and waiting. They couldn't answer that.
So another week of worry before the full details are known.
Keep a positive thought for Mr Mog please

18 comments:

Emma said...

Of course. Lots of positive thoughts.

Wye Sue said...

We are so sorry.
You know where we are if you want a chat, bugger about having to wait for news...
much love Sue & Neil xxx

Suzi Smith said...

....thinking you both....

Sea said...

you are both in my thoughts....
I've had a delay a couple of times there....they are always very good about it. Sorry to hear your news.

Kotaatok said...

Thinking of you both...

Freyalyn said...

Oh my dear, lots of love and thoughts to you both. Please pass on love from me and Mark.

fabricfan said...

I am thinking of you both.

fabricfan said...

I am thinking of you both.

Debra She Who Seeks said...

Sending Mr. Mog lots of white light and good wishes. What a stressful time this must be for you both. Hugs, many hugs.

Blue Witch said...

Methinks this isn't good enough.

I am so sorry you ave had this experience at such a crucial time.

Are you in touch with your local Macmillan branch? If not, do you think it might help speed things up? They usually have excellent connections - and if the Team are meeting on Friday and have mesed you about this much, then I think the least they can do is for one of them to find a few minutes to see you on Friday, rather than make you wait until next Wednesday... Macmillan should be able to facilitate this where you as patients won't be listened to. Also, I think their support right now might be a very good thing.

I think your nearest one isn't that near - Blackpool probably:

http://www.macmillan.org.uk/HowWeCanHelp/LocalInformationCentres/MacmillanInfoCentres.aspx

Or try their helpline: 0808 8080000

I have checked for you, but there is no NICE guidance on procedures at these times, and no up-to-date guidance on prostate cancer metastasising (2002 is the last, and 9 years in cancer research terms is a very long time).

Thinking of you, and do let me know if there is anything at all we can do to help.

Miss Elle said...

So many hugs and healing thoughts for you all xxxxxxxxx

Wibbo said...

Positive thoughts on their way for both of you.

Anonymous said...

so sorry to hear, thoughts are with you both.
Mr BW

Roobeedoo said...

Well... my FL's cancer has always been in his bones and it's been 4 years now, so don't assume the worst, please! There are new drugs being developed all the time. I agree that the waiting is always the worst thing. The not-knowing is so hard. Hugs and more hugs.

artyfartykat said...

Sending lots of positive and healing thoughts to you both, love and hugs xx

Becky Coleman said...

As soon as I heard this I went down the garden and rubbed the trunk of our Yew Tree.
Thinking of you both.

Ruby Louise said...

sending hugs and healing energy....

Rosie said...

We're thinking of you both and send out love
Rosie & Graham x